Sometimes we look at people and wonder why when we try to follow their blueprint, it doesn't work. Sometimes it's processes or systems that have worked for other things that end up a mess when we try them. It all kinda sucks
But if we learn to tweak here or there, or look at these people and processes, and pieces of advice as more of a rough draft of a plan WE can implement, it serves us much better. Too often we (or others) tell ourselves "oh look at so and so, they did it, they don't have two heads, right? Oya let me try."